The following is the transcript copy of a free live training hosted by Satori Prime in their free group where anyone can join by heading to soulsandseekers.com.
Ilan Ferdman 00:47
Welcome. Oh, man, I give me brain freeze off. Sorry. Protein Shake brain freeze. Wow.
Guy Ferdman 00:30
Up, up, up, up, up, up. Make sure we're good to go in their bones Alright y'all, welcome in.
Guy Ferdman 00:59
I don't mean to laugh Oh, we definitely never started a call that way before,
Ilan Ferdman 01:02
you know is that I'm glad x hat is Oh, that's it. He's hooked.
Guy Ferdman 01:11
Ceman sees All right, everybody, welcome in. If you are new to the party, new to the
community, feel free to say hi in the chat box, I'll put it up there for a minute. Also, if you want your name. Actually, if you want your name to show up that we can actually see your name, I want to click over here. Get that in there, click over here. My service. Basically, if you don't, since it's a closed group, we can always see your name, we just see “Facebook user” on our little chat scroll here. So if you click on that and approve it, we'll be able to see your name.
So let's dive right in. And Natalie. Hey, Gina, nice to have you guys here. Everybody else, feel free to say hello to smash some likes and hearts, let us know you're out there. And well, we'll dive right in. We are always amped up when we come off of a weekend. What that means for us is about every six to eight weeks, we run our intuitive mind live event, which is a two-day intensive. If you've been around us for a bit, it's actually a really good way, to get your foot in the door and check out what this work is really, really about. We always really want to Hey, Alice, we always want to really emphasize that regardless of what we talked about here. And we talked about a lot of really cool stuff and, you know, ways to approach your healing and your transformation and your growth. And our perspective, you know, direct experience is king.
And specifically with the work that we do in the awareness and energetic space. It's like being in a relationship, if you're not in a relationship, you can't really work on the relationship. And this relationship that we each have with ourselves is well beyond just a thought-based, mind-based mindset-based relationship. There is a component here, of course of energy and awareness. And this really incredible thing about being a human being, which is it's a very multi-dimensional experience. It's not just one thing and so many of us. Actually, that's probably not even sure most of us don't even have training around our mind and psychology, how the brain is organized, why it does what it does. What's the role that it's playing? If you do have that kind of training, and there's plenty of you in the group that do have that kind of training, there is a place for you to step up and to some awareness, energetic practices. And I think, bro next week, we'll bring people out. Yeah, for me.
Ilan Ferdman 04:00
That's a great idea. Yeah.
Guy Ferdman 04:01
So next week, guys, we'll have people who just participated in this week's event, we'll invite a bunch out here, we'll do a roundtable discussion. And you guys can hear directly from them about experiences they've had they can, I'm sure a bunch of them are here, too. They can share in the chat box any little quips and excerpts. I mean, you know, enough. Yeah, anything like that. But I can tell you, I mean, these weekends are extraordinary. For most people, regardless of how much mindset work they've done, even if they're an extremely practiced meditator. These are not just eye-opening weekends. These are life-transforming weekends because it brings you in directly into how to work with the realm of the unseen and how to use that specifically in your life for transformation, growth, and our favorite these days is healing like how do we really heal from trauma and trauma is not necessarily a big You know, mom hit me or they laughed at me, it could just be like, I'm stuck somewhere, right? Why? Why do I get stuck with how much money I make? Why do I get to get stuck with my health? How come I keep getting into the same relationships? Right? Like, maybe the relationships aren't traumatic, but they're just not working out, you know, you're just you're not in this deeply connected experience with somebody you're not, you know, finding the one and every time you find the next one, it seems similar or you're making great money, but it's, it's capped, you know, you're making your 150 200 grand a year, but you know, your potential is 500,000 or a million dollars a year, like, why doesn't that shift. And so, you know, trauma could be defined as any pattern that we are experiencing, that's repeating that is not bringing us pleasure. Right. So what we want to always look at, and this kind of lends itself to today's conversation about getting unstuck. It's like, we want to look at what are the underpinnings of your energetic configuration, that's lending itself to having those thoughts that are then in a way controlling your actions, and also attracting to you specific things in your life? Right. So while many many courses and things talk about how to change your mindset, you have this thought, okay, don't have that don't have this thought. That's all well and good. And I'm for that. I'm a big pro, in not managing, but becoming very vigilant and very mindful about the conversation that you're having, you know, what seems like within the landscape of your head, and, and shifting that as often as possible to something that feels in alignment for you and gets rid of all programming. Because at the end of the day, thoughts are habits, that's what that's really what you're looking at, is you're looking at a habit that's formed inside of you. And you can always choose to create a new habit, if you take responsibility for being becoming aware.
That will be one to look at is ultimately is what is sourcing that habit, what is sourcing the conversation? Why is there this? Like, why are you compelled? Why is there a compulsion to feel an act, and attract and be certain ways in this world that, you know, we call our identity or personality? But as we are now learners, and as we're learning or have learned for a long time now is these things are completely malleable? So why are so many of us feeling stuck, you know, so we'll talk about that. And we'll talk about what the work is here. Because I see Natalie's daughter's asking us, you know, and we'll get into all that, is there anything you want to add about this?
Ilan Ferdman 07:42
Um, I was actually talking to someone who's at our event, right before I got on this call, and I just, I'm sharing this publicly with you guys and bro, something for us to consider. You know, we talk about healing all the time. And I even just was listening to you share from that lens, right? And it's like, and he was bringing through like, you know, some people that come to this community, they're not really looking to heal of trauma or anything like that, but they're looking for enhanced performance. And I was like, You know what, that's really, really clever. Because we, in our languaging, we're kind of talking more for the healing side. But if you think about, even how you and I got into this work, and all that kind of stuff, it's like, when we found this level of work, I don't think that either of us felt like we were broken, or we had traumas that we needed to, like really work through it wasn't, that wasn't why we did it, we really looked at it from a enhancement of who we were right, like, like to find new levels and new Gears of what this thing is capable of. And if you think about it, we kind of do that in everything we do that in the way that we work out in the way that we eat in the way like you and I are alway looking for what's the maximum that this thing this human body and the soul connection can do. And I thought that was really interesting because I'm sure there's plenty of you out there that there's not maybe like trauma or even a hardship or anything that you're looking for but it's really more like how do I find that next gear? How do I find that next level? And I think ultimately once you reach the edge of what the mind is capable of, right, like, think about how many books and stuff in seminars and videos you've drenched this thing with and it's helped real like it moves but it After a while there's a diminishing return on it. Like the books all start to sound the same, the videos all start to sound the same. And that's kind of where we kind of fell into. And then we found this whole other world that involved awareness, and energy.
And healing became a part of it. But like the, you know, healing almost was like the byproduct of finding this new tool, this like, brilliant awareness effect. So I just wanted to bring that through, because I actually thought it was really smart. And I don't think we've done a good job know, again, certainly
Guy Ferdman 10:45
I like, anything you clear, anything you clear from your mental landscape, anything that you're not holding on to right is going to yield yourself to higher performance in your life. Why?
Because ultimately, when you do the practices that we're going to outline here, and just a minute, you guys even get a taste of it. If you hang around, we'll do a bit of a drop-in with everybody. It's all about bringing yourself to a neutral and compassionate place. Okay. I don't care whether you're an athlete, Elon always talks about playing tennis, right? Like Elon, if he won't go down there. But Elon is like a high performer like he expects to be, honestly the best at everything that he does. And so he's tried a lot of things in his life. I've watched him like begin many things, but then not progress on them. Because if he doesn't feel like he's immediately go to progressing really quickly through it has, has in his life actually stopped doing many things. So we used to always joke as a family, Elon would go out and buy like the
best gear, he's like, Okay, I want to do this thing is like the best gear, the best of everything.
It's like, you know, whatever the top brand is, it's like, I'm going to go buy the best fucking thing. A month later, he's just not doing it anymore. And the gear is just like sitting there. Right. But like, in contrast, we both started playing tennis together at the same time. And Elon, just, we're both passionate about it, and just continued it. And somehow I moved to California, where there's some 350 days of the year and didn't play tennis, go figure. But that doesn't make any sense. To me. It doesn't make any sense to Elon, but Elon has continued and he's become very, very good. But when I played with Elon, when I played with Elon, he would like if he didn't get a point the way he wanted to, he would scream at himself. Like literally like yelling himself, you can almost hear we call these like parts you have like, like, parts within you, I'm sorry, we have protectors within us. And we call it different things we'll call like a protector, like your judger. Right? You're inquisitive one, your inquire or your the need to know the general, you know, the soft fun. And there's all these different ways that we've learned to navigate this world and create safety and you you tend to have a dominant one. But like when you saw this with Elon, it was it like took you back I remember one of our best friends literally said, I don't like to play tennis with Elon, it's not fun. Because on the opposite end of the net, he would just yelling at himself. Right. And so you can literally hear his inner critic, like trying to destroy him while he's playing a game. Now, when that's happening, right, you're not going to be a great performer. Like your game now is in decline. Because every little thing that happens on the court that's not to the standard of that protector, immediately becomes more evidence why you can't do this right? And get anybody who knows business and sports and relationships. When you're tight in your body. You don't perform well. It's when you when you're relaxed, you can follow through. And if that's true in sports, that's true energetically in every little thing in your life. Right? If you show up on a date, and you're tight inside your body, you are like a mess. You're like a bumbling human being if you're relaxed, which is why most people have a drink, right? To just kind of relax their body a little bit. Suddenly, it's like, oh, they're funny. And they're, they're, you know, they're quick and they got puns, and they're making people laugh and all this kind of stuff like you're performing better, right? Like you're, you're getting more related authentically. This is true in every area of life. So maybe you're not a perfectionist, right? Maybe you're on the opposite end of that you just make yourself feel bad, or whatever it might be. We all have our stick. Right? And what we have found at the end of the day, the fundamental thing that seems to connect all people across the entire planet is a desire and need and request for safety. I'm just gonna let that hang in the air here for a moment, okay? Like it doesn't matter who you are. Doesn't matter what financial level it doesn't matter what country you live in doesn't matter what color creed or religion that you have, fundamentally, almost everything that we do, including our religions have been ways for humans to congregate in a certain way that allow for them to attempt attempt to feel more safe. And I'm not talking about like, just safe in the world, I mean, like safe in your body. Okay, like just like walking around day to day interacting with people in life, like just feeling safe.
Now, whatever it is that you've developed as a personality trait or an identity, or as a winning formula to try to become more successful, again, look at it as money, right? As a means to create more safety in this world strength, if you're like, you want to go to the gym and get strong, like, I feel safer in my body. When I have, when I have muscles, like when I'm strong when I'm flexible, right. Like, I know that if I'm in a situation where I need to do something, physically, I'm capable of doing that I'm going to feel safe. Or if I'm frightened, I can run, you know, like, whatever it might be like, that makes me feel safer. So I have a drive to like to be in good health, but it's like, driven by this, this need underneath. And so we want to get really, really honest, that we're all stuck and stuck is extremely valuable, right? Like, there's gonna be things that it's like, you're stuck a little bit and those things are like, Fuck, this has been going on for 40 Fucking yours, like, why can't I get out of this? Right? And so we really, really want to start looking at not just how do I convince myself that everything's going to be okay. Right?
Like that, to me, is the same as a seven-year-old who thinks there's like a boogeyman in the house and they run upstairs, and they pull the sheets over their head. Okay, like, that's, that's the kind of safety that most of us have learned to try to develop. It's like, I just hope it goes away. You know, there's like wishful type of thinking, instead of like, how, how do I actually work with this part of myself? Is there anything you want to add to this?
Ilan Ferdman 16:47
Um no, keep going. I did. And that