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37: This Is What’s Holding You Back

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Each soul has it’s own chosen path and experiences.

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Do you often get upset and freak out about things going wrong? Your mindset is what’s keeping you from truly enjoying life. We all have moments where we wreck our car, leave our lap top on an airplane, or have the unthinkable happen. These events aren’t upsetting you, they just happen. Your outlook is what’s upsetting you.

On this episode of Have It All, Guy and Ilan explore what it takes to really live your life to the fullest. You can’t get upset over things out of your control, and understand when something happens it’s done. There’s no point in obsessing over it, you need to move on. That doesn’t mean bottle it up, as that will lead to an even worse outcome.

Download this episode of Have It All to find out the secrets to letting things go and finding real balance in your life.

You don’t need to fully understand something to begin the journey. Just go.

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The Cliff Notes:

  • It’s easy to become stressed and unhappy.
  • It takes work to become balanced.
  • Don’t stress about things out of your control
  • Whatever is meant to happen will happen.
  • Each soul has chosen its own path and experiences.
  • Give your children tools to get through tough moments with power.
  • Knowledge and understanding doesn’t mean you have the skills needed.
  • Don’t look at things as if you have to overcome it, you have to realign yourself.
  • You can’t just feel love, you need to have experiences of love.
  • Holding in negative emotions will cause negative impacts down the road.
  • Early adopters typically aren’t logic brained people.
  • Just because one memory was painful doesn’t mean everything that happened was painful.
  • Most people make their choices on fear and survival.
    • Fear will hold you back from life experiences.


Don’t be too hard on yourself when things go wrong.

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